Anal play is a term used for various forms of sexual activity that involve stimulation of the anus. These activities may include anal sex, anal penetration with a finger, anal beads, pegging, and the use of strap-ons, dildos or vibrators.

Anal sex is generally the insertion and thrusting of the erect penis into a person’s anus for sexual pleasure. Once considered taboo, anal sex is increasing in popularity with many women preferring it to vaginal intercourse.

B&D stands for bondage and discipline. Bondage restraints can include handcuffs, ropes and gags which are used to restrict the submissive partner’s physical movements. Discipline includes the domination of the submissive partner by their dominant or master, and may include rewards or punishment.

Blindfolds are often used in bondage practices. The party wearing the blindfold submits to their partner, forcing them to rely on their other senses including smell, taste, touch and sound.

Cock torture is the torture of the male genitals for sexual gratification, which includes inflicting pain or discomfort on the penis and testicles.

Corporal punishment is a punishment intended to cause physical pain. It may include slapping (only with cock), spanking, paddling, caning or whipping.

Cuckolding is about a man getting turned on by his partner being pleasured by someone else. Frequently depicted as the woman, (the Cuckoldress) engaging in sex with another man, the Bull. Her own male partner, the Cuck, is aware of this sexual relationship, and is generally a non-touching participant who derives pleasure from the degradation…

A Dominant (Dom) is a person who takes on the role of the superior, and exercises control over a submissive (sub).

Sometimes called DP for short, generally involves having two men penetrate you at the same time, both vaginally and anally. However can be achieved through the use of toys and can also be simultaneous penetration of a single orifice.

Electro play is the practice of using electrical stimulation to the nerves of the body, in order to create different sensations such as sexual stimulation and tickling.

With corporal punishment I will not slap faces. I will however slap your face with my cock or alternatively simply rub my cock over your face.

Femdom is an abbreviation of Female Dominance. Generally involved face-sitting where you sit or hover over a partner’s face.

Forced bi is the sexual act whereby a Dominant forces a submissive to engage in some form of sexual activity with a person of the same sex as the submissive.

Involved grabbing and pulling of hair during passionate intimacy and sexual acts.

Ice Play is a form of sensual interaction in which a person places ice into or onto their partner’s naked body. Ice play is to introduce a sensation to the skin, causing a rush of adrenalin which increases arousal.

Wax Play is a form of sensual interaction in which a person drips warm or hot wax onto their partner’s naked body. Wax play is to introduce a slight burning sensation to the skin, causing a rush of adrenalin which increases arousal.

Nipple torture is a BDSM activity where the dominant partner inflicts pain or intense stimulation on the breasts of the submissive partner. Nipple torture may be carried out by various instruments, such as clamps, pegs, breast bondage, caning, as well as the use of electricity and temperature (such as wax or ice cubes).

Pussy torture is a BDSM activity where the dominant partner inflicts pain or intense stimulation on the pussy of the submissive partner. Pussy torture may be carried out by various instruments, such as clamps, pegs, slapping (hand and cock), whipping, biting, as well as the use of electricity and temperature (such as wax or ice…

Rimming, also known as analingus, is the act of orally pleasuring the anus. This can involve licking, sucking, kissing, and any other pleasurable act that involves oral-to-anal contact.

Rope bondage is bondage involving the use of rope to restrict movement, wrap, suspend, or restrain a person. There are several techniques of rope bondage, such as spread eagle, chair tied, standing at the cross, and hog tied. A popular form of rope bondage is called Shibari, which is an erotic ancient Japanese artistic form…

Sensory deprivation is a commonly used that makes people focus on other senses by depriving them of one or more senses. Temporary removal of the sense of sight is the most common form of sensory deprivation, with the use of blindfolds, masks or hoods. Sensory deprivation can also include depriving a person of smell, hearing…

In BDSM, a slave is a person who consensually relinquishes all of their power to a Dominant partner in a total power exchange relationship.

Spanking is the act of spanking another person for the sexual arousal or gratification of either or both parties. Spanking is often done by the hand on bare buttocks, and can also include a variety of objects such as a paddle, whip, or cane.

Sploshing is where one or both parties smear their body with wet messy substances. Popular substances used for sploshing include whipped cream, cake, chocolate sauce, custard, milk and cake batter.

Tease and denial is the act of keeping a person sexually stimulated until they are close to orgasm, then stimulation is stopped, keeping the person on the brink of orgasm.

Where physical restraints are commonly used to control the orgasm of a partner. Tie and tease involves the tying up of a partner and bringing them to the brink of orgasm by stopping and denying them an orgasm.